Single Christian parents have overwhelming spiritual, emotional and physical needs. Yet, polls also show they are one of the least likely groups to attend church. Why is this?

Some single parents are working several jobs to make ends meet, and simply do not have the time. Many others, however, feel excluded or stigmatized by the church, and so stay at home.

When the Scriptures states that believers should care for the poor, the widows and the defenseless, this group of people is not too far removed. Churches and single parent ministries have a great opportunity to show the love of Jesus in this area.

If you are a single Christian parent, and struggling with the burdens of life. let me remind you of some wonderful things:

 

Stop feeling guilty! You cannot do it all, no matter what that single parent prayer says. So take a bow (you deserve it!) for the job you are doing and rest in the One who can do it all, and who wants to help you bear the load (Psalms 55:22, Psalms 91, 1Peter 5:7).
Plan a little time just for you in order to recharge.

Even Jesus got away into the wildreness to pray for a while, apart from his kids…the disciples! If that means a bubble bath and a great book, go for it.

Join a singles group fellowship where you can encourage others and be encouraged.

It’s what the Lord wants for you (Hebrews 10:25). While many churches are failing to meet the needs of singles and single parents dating, there are those who have formed local Christian singles support groups and specialized ministries for parents and kids. Find one and stick with it.

You and your kids will both be happier for it.
Remember Jesus promises never to leave you (or your kids) nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Are these just empty words, or real promises from a Heavenly Father?